Monday, December 18, 2017

An Exercise in Letting Go

“The greatest meditation is a mind that lets go.” 

                                                                                    -Atisha

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What does it mean to let go?  Some of us believe letting go is to just stop thinking about a problem.  Others see it as replacing a problem, in the form of a person or situation, with another person or a different situation. However, before we move on, we need to let go. Letting go is, essentially, how we heal.  Healing is made up of layers; heart, mind, body, and spirit.  When we let go we clean out the negative thoughts, feelings, and beliefs that hold us back from achieving what we want in life.  As we go on living, layers of dirt and grime accumulate and, like a drain pipe, the channels of our heart, mind, body, and spirit become clogged with past hurts, losses, and disappointments. It becomes necessary to unclog those channels in order to let go and to heal.

The following meditation can help us take a step in the process toward letting something go in our life.

·         Sit in a comfortable chair with your feet uncrossed and flat on the ground.  Close your eyes and think about the person or situation that you are having trouble letting go of.  Notice any images that arise related to the issue.  What emotion is coming up?  Identify the emotion; fear, anger, sadness, confusion, overwhelm.  Notice where you feel it in your body.  Be aware of any muscle tension, warmth, coolness, heaviness, or tingling.  Give the emotion a color that represents what you are experiencing.  There is no right or wrong color. It just needs to reflect what is happening in the moment.

·         Now imagine a big bubble floating in the air at eye level in front of you.  Take a deep breath in through your nose with your mouth closed.  Exhale through your mouth, forcefully releasing the air.  See it as your chosen color.  Imagine blowing the colored air into the bubble.  See the bubble expand with your colored breath inside.  Continue taking deep breaths and then exhaling into the bubble.

·         After several breaths, pause and notice the degree of emotion you are feeling in the moment.  Notice if anything has changed in your physical body.  Has the sensation moved, lessened, or increased?  Are there any new sensations?  If you feel the emotion has subsided to some degree and you are okay with that, you can proceed to the next step or, if you want to release more, take a few final breaths in and blowing out.

·         When you are done releasing, see in your mind’s eye, the image of the bubble filled with your colored breath.  Imagine taking your finger and popping the bubble, releasing the air.  See the air like colored smoke, floating up and dissipating into the atmosphere until it is completely gone.

·         Now, sit with your back straight and your hands resting on your thighs, palms facing up, fingers relaxed.  With eyes closed, repeat silently to yourself, “I am letting go.  I am receiving healing and freedom from ______________________________.”

                              (Fill in the blank with a specific emotion)

It is important to be gentle with ourselves and to know that, depending upon the intensity and the layers of “dirt”, we may need to practice this exercise more than once.  It may be more comfortable to release little bits at a time, rather than to let the feelings go all at once.  We need to be sure to listen to our inner self, to honor it, and to be fully present in the moment.

May we all practice moments of letting go, embracing a sense of joy and freedom in our relationships.

TO LISTEN TO AN AUDIO VERSION OF THIS EXERCISE CLICK HERE  www.youtube.com/watch?v=hV9cuQeRcZs&t=98s

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